Happy Christmas

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HAPPY CHRISTMAS!

I’m here at home , in front of my roaring fire, my four babies are in bed and I’m smiling.

We made it!

This time last year I felt so differently to the way I feel today.  As I was wrapping gifts late last night (even with plenty of planning time I was still wrapping at 1am!) I had time to think back to Christmases Past. Much like the Dickens novel, I was taken back to many memories of happy Christmases as a child. I had such a happy childhood and my Christmas memories are all brilliant. I remember singing carols in bed on Christmas Eve , letting my daddy creep down to be sure that Father Christmas had been before we went down to rip open the paper and reveal the very things we had been dreaming of.  Then when I was older there were wonderful times on Christmas Eve with my friends in the pub. Then there was my first pregnancy Christmas  with the arrival of our twins, Lily & Kitty, bang on 40 weeks two days after Christmas Day and the arrival 5 days before Christmas in 2007 of Rufus. So many happy times but also , as with all people, there are some more difficult memories. The loss of my grandad a few days before Christmas, those first Christmases with key family members missing, the  Christmases  when we had to cut the day short due to illness. These memories are ones I would rather not recall and one of these memories is Christmas 2013.

Christmas Day 2013 started with calpol for Herbie to bring down his fever and although he tried to show some interest in his sack gifts and stocking goodies he was clearly not well and  excitement was hard to muster. Presents were opened but left  as he climbed back onto the sofa and watched his siblings excitement.  Our only visitor on Christmas Day 2013 was Allie, a community nurse , who came to administer his iv antibiotics via his newly inserted PICC line. We waited until she had finished, by then Herbie was asleep, and we were able to go to my parents for Christmas dinner. Ibuprofen helped him to make it through another round of present opening there but he struggled again to find the enthusiasm to actually play with the toys or his siblings/cousins and he wasn’t hungry or remotely sociable. He got hot and needed meds, slept and complained his tummy hurt. We went home early feeling sad and robbed of a happy family Christmas that we had looked forward to after the year of worries over Lily’s health.

Fast forward to today, a year on, 7 months post bone marrow transplant. Our day was all we had hoped for . Last night the four children were so excited , just as they should be, with the anticipation of  Father Christmas visiting. Dan took three of the  children to the local Christingle service and then to the pub whilst Herbie and I stayed home watching a Christmas film and then wrapped some gifts. We were so excited.

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Christmas excitement
Christmas excitement
Our Christmas Eve box left by our elf
Our Christmas Eve box left by our elf

 

We read Christmas stories, drank hot chocolate and watched a Christmas film before bed. Around 7.45-am this morning we all ran downstairs and opened the door to shouts of “he’s been, he’s been! From then on we had a text book day! Smiles, unwrapping, excitement, food and fun with cousins, siblings etc. Obviously there were the usual daily medicines but we had a normal day! No community nurse visits, no calpol and plenty of smiles and happy memories made. We had the Christmas Day, and indeed the run up to Christmas, that we had all hoped for. We hope that you did too!  We know that life is by no means back to normal but do you know what? It sure felt pretty normal today!

I did stop and think of those people that we have befriended during transplant a few times today. I knew that not everybody was having the day we were having.  Our friends who are still in GOS with their son, 8 months post transplant , who haven’t had their going home post transplant moment yet. Our friends whose 3 year old daughter was readmitted a couple of weeks ago with post transplant complications. (Although we later heard GOS had let her home for 9 hours to be with family). Our friends whose 11 year old son was taken into his local hospital two days ago with a fever and had a line infection confirmed and required hospital iv’s today.  Our friends who are spending their first Christmas without their son.  Our thoughts are with them.

Not everyone will be making a memory that they want to treasure today but I am grateful that we had the chance to do that this year.  So far Christmas 2014 is  magical and gives me hope that 2015 and beyond could be too.

Happy  Christmas x

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2 thoughts on “Happy Christmas”

  1. Nadolig Llawen! So lovely to hear that you are having lovely family time, you have been in our thoughts. Enjoy the rest of the holidays!
    X Kate, Steve, Tom & Ed

  2. So lovely to see you all enjoying Christmas. Wishing you all a very merry Christmas and happy healthy, prosperous new year. Cheryl x

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